英语文化 美式待客之道
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When you've had plenty, you might offer to clear the table or wash the dishes. But since you're the guest,
your hosts may not let you. Instead, they may invite everyone to move to the living room for dessert with tea or
coffee. After an hour or so of general chit-chat, it's probably time to head for the door. You don't want to wear
out your welcome. And above all, don't go snooping around the house. It's more polite to wait for the host to
offer you a guided tour. But except for housewarmings, guests often don't get past the living room.
当你吃得差不多时，或许可以主动表示要帮忙清理桌子或洗碗盘，但你既是客人，你的主人可能不会让你这样做。他们或许会邀请大家到客厅吃点心、喝茶或咖啡。聊个大约一小时或许就该离去了，你可不希望变得不受欢迎吧。还有最重要的是不要在屋子里四处窥探，等主人邀请你参观才较有礼貌。可是除了乔迁喜宴之外，客人通常都只待在客厅里。
Americans usually like to have advance notice when people come to see them. Only very close friends drop
by unannounced. This is especially true if the guests want to stay for a few days. Here's a good rule of thumb
for house guests: Short stays are best. As one 19th century French writer put it, "The first day a man is a guest,
the second a burden, the third a pest." Even relatives don't usually stay for several weeks at a time. While you're
staying with an American family, try to keep your living area neat and tidy. Your host family will appreciate yourconsideration. And they may even invite you back!
美国人通常喜欢访客事先通知他们，只有非常亲密的朋友才可能不请自来，尤其在客人要待好几天时更是如此。最好不要久留——这是给访客的经验之谈。如同十九世纪一位法国作家所写的：「第一天是客人，第二天是负担，第三天就是讨厌鬼了。」即使是亲戚通常也不会一次待上几个星期。当你住在美国人家里时，设法使你住的地方保持整齐清洁。你的主人一家都会感谢你这么体贴，他们甚至会再邀请你！
Most Americans consider themselves hospitable people. Folks in the southern United States, in particular,
take pride in entertaining guests. In fact, "southern hospitality" has become legendary. But in all parts of
America, people welcome their guests with open arms. So don't be surprised to find the welcome mat out for
you. Just don't forget to wipe your feet.
大多数美国人都认为他们是好客之人。尤其是美国的南方人更以款待客人自豪，事实上，「南方的款待」是人们所津津乐道口口相传的。不过在美国各地，人们都展开双臂欢迎他们的客人，所以当你发现有WELCOME字样的鞋垫为你而时，別惊讶，只是別忘了把你的脚擦干净就是了。